Tag: spiritual bypassing

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Emotional Abuse & Coercive Control

What Is Gaslighting, Really? The Precise Definition Behind the Most Overused Word in Emotional Abuse

The word “gaslighting” is everywhere — and that’s exactly the problem. When a precise clinical term gets stretched to mean everything, it stops meaning anything at all. Here’s the real definition, the five specific mechanisms that define it, and why what you’re carrying deserves a word heavy enough to hold it.

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Faith & Spiritual Abuse

How Can God Be Love If Religious People Hurt Me?

Explore a personal journey of questioning God’s love amid religious abuse. Discover how Jesus heals and redeems pain caused by those misusing faith, offering hope and a renewed understanding of God’s heart.

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Emotional Abuse & Coercive Control

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome: Overview

Our working definition of emotional abuse is that it is an ongoing pattern of selfish, destructive behaviors used to gain and maintain control over their spouse for one’s own benefit at the expense of their spouse. Underlying this pattern of behavior is a strong sense of entitlement to use others regardless of the cost to them. Narcissistic, emotional abuse eventually culminates in a very complicated case of un-health. The soul-crushing experience of being dismissed, unheard and unseen, belittled, and silenced culminates in becoming a dead (wo)man walking.

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Faith & Spiritual Abuse

What Biblical Submission Actually Means — And What It Isn’t

“A godly wife submits.” You’ve heard it quoted at you, usually by the person who benefits most. But biblical submission in marriage was never compliance. Once fear, obligation, or guilt removes the choice, it stops being submission, and becomes something else entirely.

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Faith & Spiritual Abuse

The False Safety of a Marriage Idol

God loves you too much to let you go through the rest of your life putting your hope in a marriage idol, even if that idol was designed to be a powerful reflection, and experience, of Him.

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